Saint Olga of Kiev, my 34th great grandmother

Saint Olga of Kiev, my 34th great grandmother
SAINT OLGA OF KIEV, MY 34TH GREAT GRANDMOTHER
Showing posts with label Christian love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christian love. Show all posts

Saturday, June 18, 2022

St. Elizabeth of Schonau, Mystic and Visionary, June 18, 2022

 


Saint Elizabeth of Schonau
b. 1129 - d. 18 June 1164

Today's saint lived a remarkably intense but rather short life, full of fantastic visions and visitations that were documented by both herself and her brother, who, by all accounts, was a bit overbearing and tended to color her experiences through his own more formal and florid lens. There are volumes of prose written by her and, evidently, you can tell where her brother began to write them for her because of the change in language and tone. Her language was more simple and direct.

Well known and powerful men of that time tended to follow what she said in the many letters that she wrote to them.

I was really impressed with the gorgeous photos that someone named Ana St. Paul has included on her blog site, Ana St. Paul. I don't know who she is or where she got her research, but her blog is beautifully done, and if you are interested in this particular mystic, you can go to Ana's blog and have a look. I really could not do any better.

Saint Elizabeth of Schonau and Copyright Law

There are quite a few web sites that talk about this saint, and most of them appear to have plagiarized an original, using the exact same language, such as that this saint was able to "transcend the traditional gender roles of the time." (I suspect that Ana St. Paul is the original writer and that others have stolen her work for their own blogs.)

I wish that people were more respectful of copyright law. They have the weirdest ideas about it.

Anyone who writes anything using their own creativity has an immediate "copyright" that lasts at least until 75 years after their death and unless you have specific written permission from the author to use their words, you are guilty of theft if you use anything but a short quote - but that quote MUST be a very small amount in comparison to the original work and you MUST also give credit in a specific format. 

This "fair use" varies, depending on the significance of the part stolen. For instance, in a poem, it could be a word or two that is significant to the theme. (Recently, I had to chivvy another writer who stole a haiku theme from me, using a pivotal word in relation to the same subject. She was obnoxious about it and I had to ask her to leave a writing group I started. Who wants to associate with someone who steals from you and demands that you sit still for it?)

Most of these "writers" who have put something online about Elizabeth of Schonau appear to have copied the ENTIRE work of the original writer without giving any credit whatsoever, which is both illegal and unethical and, frankly, a bit creepy.

When I have told people about this in connection with my own writing (which is FREQUENTLY stolen, especially in the genealogy field, in which I am a minor expert), I usually get a volatile reaction. This is an age in which people feel remarkably ENTITLED to do whatever they damn well please, even if it infringes on the rights of others. I call it "the era of the bully." 

The Era of the Bully

There are virtual battalions of martinets stomping around the world, demanding that everyone else make them comfortable, cater to them, entertain them, and make them happy. Don't dare confide anything but "positivity" to these petty little blackmailers because it is everyone else's responsibility to make them feel good.  We are all prisoners in an interpersonal gulag. This tendency makes itself known very much on the internet.

I am just sick of the raft of Facebook memes advising people that no one is worth keeping around unless they make you "happy." Ayn Rand, the author of  "The Virtue of Selfishness" and the head of an organization devoted to that idea, would just LOVE the current social construct in which selfish pleasure seekers flounce around the internet, demanding to be coddled.

Recently, I was put onto a mailing list without my permission. Ostensibly the organization exists to promote devotion to Our Lady of Fatima, which is a favorite apparition of mine, but I keep getting emails from them telling me I must join their campaign against one thing after another. The tone modulates between strident and absolutely hysterical. Fight against this. Fight against that. Stop this. Stop that. This organization has decided that its mission is to force the rest of the world to please them. The mere existence of another religion or philosophy appears to make them feel personally slighted. Instead of alluring people to The Lord, they're stomping around with a litany of resentments.  Too much.

Toxic Positivity vs. Christian Love

This emphasis on pleasure and entertainment is toxic. I do what I can to let people know that I do not expect it of them. Everyone who enters my world can be assured of, at the very least, some simple sympathy when life kicks them in the teeth. I do what I can to love my neighbor. 

I believe that, at the very least, Christians should welcome authenticity in others, which includes expressions of sadness, disappointment, grief, and other modes of distress.

It is not the job of every human to make me feel good. It is nice when it happens, but my criteria for friendship has to do with values and character, rather than selfish enjoyment. I am friends with some angular and, at times, difficult people who are hard to be around. It doesn't matter. They're good people with hearts of gold, and I am happy to call each one "friend."

Contentment With my Simple Life

Today is the 3rd or 4th day since my 2nd booster shot and, although the arm still aches a good deal, the other reactions have subsided and I have begun to feel more normal, though I am still not sleeping very much.

At first, I was very concerned about the insomnia but I am reminded of my guru who only slept 4 hours at night, and then a 2 hour nap in the afternoon. He lived into his 90's and, by all reports, kept his sharp mind and his customary schedule. This is the approximate schedule that I myself am keeping at the moment, but I have recently started taking melatonin at the suggestion of one of my doctors, so we shall see if my schedule changes. I suspect that, like my guru, it has become my 'natural' state and that, for someone who meditates a good deal, this is probably normal.

Today my little dog and I took a ride across town to pick up a container of half-and-half that I use for my afternoon tea. Janie had gotten it for me but it did not make it back into her car when she brought over the other groceries, so I opted to do a "drive by" and get it from her. I do enjoy a leisurely drive, though the price of gasoline limits that to the status of a luxury these days. I told Charlemagne that we were going to see his "Auntie Jane" when we were a block away and he started shrieking. He just loves her like crazy, and it is so cute.

I feel so grateful today for my simple life, despite all the pains and pitfalls. I am feeling the love and care of The Lord very much these days, as well as the attention and company of Our Blessed Mother, as well as my family of saints in heaven. They are with me in a way that I perceive with great love. What a blessing!

May we all be blessed!

Silver Rose
Sannyasini Kaliprana
Silver Cottage Hermitage

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Thursday, June 13, 2019

ADJUSTABLE BED AND OTHER BIG GIRL FURNITURE NEEDED



I came to New Mexico with only what I could fit in my little Toyota, thinking I could replace my furniture when I started working, but very soon after I got here, I became completely disabled and my Social Security is not enough to purchase furniture.

A friend from church gave me a recliner that I have been sleeping in for a couple of years, and a pink leather couch that I just love - but I desperately need a real bed that adjusts for my painful disabilities, as well as some furniture on which to work, write and paint and in which to store art supplies, paints, yarn, etc.

There is a neighbor in my complex who I can pay to put together the furniture. He used to do it professionally, lucky for me.

I have picked out the least expensive options that would work in my apartment. Amazon has my address and will ship to me direct.

Please take a look at my DONATION WISH LIST HERE

If you cannot afford any of the items on the list, but you would like to donate, please click on the PAYPAL DONATION LINK, to the right.

You know, most of my life I spent in a very minimalist style, living mainly on the floor, but I will be 65 this year, and I can't get up off the floor, once I get down there - so it's time to live like a grownup, don't you think?

God bless us all, and thank you.

Silver Rose

Tuesday, April 16, 2019

JESUS PUNISHED THE RICH, BUT NEVER THE POOR








As I listen to and read world news, I am disturbed by a furious trend toward punishment as the cure for every societal ill, real or imagined

Recently, for instance, I heard that the small country of Brunei has just passed a law that adulterous and homosexual acts will be punished by stoning to death.

Stoning to death.

In our country, we have a so-called "president" who instituted  a policy that directly caused thousands of children to be taken away from their parents and incarcerated in cement-floored holding cells for an indeterminate time, with no plan in place as to how the children and parents would ever be reunited - all because the family came to this country, fleeing poverty and gangs, hoping for a better life.

Their kids were taken from them because, essentially,
their papers were not in order.

Donald Trump claims, falsely, that President Obama did the same thing. He did not. Trump is lying, once again. While the occasional incidental separation of children from parents convicted of serious crimes DID take place during the Obama administration, Trump's "Zero Tolerance Policy," as announced by Jeff Sessions (many videos available of the day he announced it) is what caused a huge uptick in the number of case of children separated from their families - so much so that the incarceration of these children and the conditions under which this was carried out, is a major scandal of this administration, in part because of the THOUSANDS of children and families thus brutalized.

I could write quite a bit about the punitive temperament of Donald Trump, but I just can't bear to let my mind touch him any more than I absolutely have to, other than to say that he and the people he represents form a large block of humans whose orientation tends toward harsh penalties, incarceration, and cruel practices.

"Sell your possessions and give alms; make yourselves purses
which do not wear out, an unfailing treasure in heaven, where no
thief comes near, nor moth destroys. For where your treasure is,
there will your heart be also."
Luke 12:44

I have observed that the people who ignore Christ's preference for the poor, and the Biblical injunctions against the amassing of wealth, are the same people who, with angry hearts, continually castigate the poor and disadvantaged. They are the ones who revel in the punishment of lawbreakers. To them, harsh worldly laws that target the poor and disadvantaged, are more important than the commandments of Jesus and the apostles, despite many of them advertising themselves as the best Christians ever. They are the modern Pharisees.

It is all smoke and mirrors, sleight of hand, and
the Wizard of Oz behind the curtain; meant to
distract attention from the disobedience of the
modern day Pharisees for whom commerce is
their God.

To combat our cultural tendency toward this harsh punitive orientation, we need to cultivate the love of Christ and advocate for the poor and disadvantaged, just as he and his Biblical forbears did. Resist the political narrative that encourages hatred of desperate immigrants who come here searching for peace, safety, and survival. Resist the lies and obfuscations that would have everyone believe that massive numbers of people are "gaming the system," "faking disability," and illegally obtaining food for their children at our expense.

The Pharisees are using gullible people to advance their agenda, which is to further enrich themselves while feigning religiosity at the same time. In doing so, they are twisting and torturing the Christian faith beyond all recognition.

Try to stay focused on the heart of Christ and his commandments. I recommend meditation on His words. Ignore the countless justifications for cruelty that the Pharisees present to us.  Concentrate on the heart of Jesus' message, his continual preference for the poor and disadvantaged, and everything good will flow from there.

"If you wish to be complete, go and sell your
possessions and give to the poor, and you shall
have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me."
Matthew 19:20


May the Lord submerge your heart in His love.

Silver

Monday, January 28, 2019

WHAT IS YOUR VISION FOR THE FUTURE?



"When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not
invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives
or rich neighbors, lest they also invite you in return,
and repayment come to you. But when you give a
reception, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame,
the blind, and you will be blessed, since they do not
have the means to repay you; for you will be repaid
at the resurrection of the righteous."

~Luke 14:12-14~



Jesus told us quite clearly that He expects us to distribute his largess, but humans continue to disparage other humans and to say, directly and indirectly, that the poor are not "worth" helping, or that they aren't really poor, or that they do not deserve any assistance unless they are as poor as the poorest person in the world.

The Trump administration wants to give a black mark to any immigrant who receives assistance, so that when it comes time to decide on his application for citizenship, he will have a major hurdle to overcome. Trump has made it clear that he doesn't want to receive anyone from "shit hole countries" and he'll do almost anything to discourage them, including taking their children and incarcerating them.

"The poor man has one plea, his want and his standing
in need: do not require anything else from him; but
even if he is the most wicked of all men and is at a
loss for his necessary sustenance, let us free him from
hunger."
~ St. John Chrysostom~

The continuous message with which we are being pounded is that poor people are less than others. Poor people are criminals. Poor people are addicted to drugs. Poor people are responsible for whatever is lacking in the economies of other people.These ideas are fueled by the propaganda of scarcity. This lie is promoted by greedy people who have far more than they need. Something like 27 Americans own as much of our country's wealth as the rest of the millions of others. They spend a lot of money advertising the philosophy of scarcity and cutthroat competition. Every one of society's ills are blamed on the poor, the sick, the brown, the different.

I reject that false vision of the world.

"[Commandment to kings.] Open your mouth for the dumb,
for the rights of all the unfortunate. Open your mouth, judge
righteously, and defend the rights of the afflicted and needy."
~Proverbs 31~

What I want is for everyone's circumstances to rise to the level where we all have yummy, healthy food, safe and comfortable housing, good medical care, comprehensive education, and the joys of art and culture. No one would feel the need to have an abortion. All children would have a loving, happy family life.

Rather than demanding that our poor live as poorly as those in the poorest banana republic, I think God wants everyone to be lifted up. Instead of complaining that our poor people have cell phones, why not aspire to every poor person having a means of communication? Instead of looking down on poor people who are saddled with addiction issues, why not aspire to everyone having access to rehabilitation?

In short, my vision of the future is an egalitarian vision of love. It's God's explicit vision, as consistently revealed in the words of Christ and his saints.

"If there is a poor man among you, one of your brothers,
in any of the towns of the land which the LORD your
God is giving you, you shall not harden your heart, nor
close your hand to your poor brother; but you shall
freely open your hand to him, and generously lend
him sufficient for his need in whatever he lacks."
~Deut. 15:7~

What is YOUR vision?

Silver "Rose"

Friday, March 24, 2017

THE MOST IMPORTANT COMMANDMENTS




SACRED HEART OF JESUS

Today's gospel reading is particularly crucial for all Christians because, while the values put forth in the Bible are numerous, Jesus clearly and unequivocably sets before us the pivotal ideas around which our lives should revolve.

Gospel reading for today:
Mark 12:28-34

One of the scribes came to Jesus and asked him,
"Which is the first of all the commandments?"
Jesus replied, "The first is this:
Hear, O Israel!
The Lord our God is Lord alone!
You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart,
with all your soul, 
with all your mind,
and with all your strength.
The second is this:
You shall love your neighbor as  yourself.
There is no other commandment greater than these."
The scribe said to him, "Well said, teacher.
You are right in saying,
He is One and there is no other than he.
And to love him with all your heart,
with all your understanding,
with all your strength,
and to love your neighbor as yourself
is worth more than all burnt offerings and sacrifices."
And when Jesus saw that he answered with understanding,
he said to him,
"You are not far from the Kingdom of God."
And no one dared to ask him any more questions.

Several people have expressed to me, and I have seen it written many times on social media and elsewhere, that the poor should be helped, but in a limited way. Many conditions are placed upon even the smallest amount offered to the poor, and some people express resentment when even a tiny amount of money is offered to the indigent from public monies.

One woman echoed the general feeling among the comfortable and well fed when she said, "Oh, I believe we should help the poor, but they don't deserve to benefit to the same degree that I do." Many people feel this way, but it isn't Christian.

Jesus asks us to love one another as much as we love ourselves. It's very clear in this passage, and there is no skirting around it.

Loving everyone as much as we love ourselves is a challenge to the natural selfishness that we all experience, at least part of the time. It forces us to loosen our attachment to false ideas of status. It pries open the hand that is grasping personal resources, and it presents an egalitarian worldview.

We cannot look down upon someone that we love as much as we love ourselves. We cannot wish them ill or wish that they remained in poverty. We cannot act in any manner that would take the food from their mouths or injure them in any way. In fact, it obviously advocates for the positive good of every person.

In another part of the Bible, we are taught that loving someone does not mean wishing them well and then moving along. It isn't enough to say, "oh, I love you so much, I wish you had the same good food that I eat, the same comfortable housing that I possess, and the same clothing that I wear." It isn't solely an intellectual orientation.

Today's Gospel reading is a really good one for Lent, when almsgiving is emphasized, but it certainly isn't limited to that aspect. It has global implications that require a revolution in our thinking and behavior. It requires a humble attitude toward our fellow man. This humble attitude is a riot against arrogance. It isn't an easy thing. 

For myself, I plan on meditating on its significance and how I might apply it in a better way. I highly recommend it.

God bless us all.

Silver Rose Parnell

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

ADOPT A GRANNY



This year I lost more than 40 pounds; I cut 37 points off my “bad” cholesterol without reducing the “good” cholesterol; I cut my triglycerides in HALF; my blood sugar was cut in half, and I have managed to maintain an excellent blood pressure in the range of 115 over 70 without the use of any medications.

Don’t congratulate me, though. I owe it entirely to my Catholic community, and especially my friends Jane and Kathy who have been supplementing my diet with wholesome, mostly organic, fruits, veggies and proteins, without which my dramatic improvement in health indicators would not have been possible.

There are a lot of single, disabled and/or frail elderly women who, at the end of their lives, find themselves living on nothing but their Social Security insurance, the average of which is $1,000 a month. Those with little or no family that are interested in helping them are especially vulnerable, and there are a surprising number of us. Families are smaller these days, and the bonds between relatives are often very tenuous. Husbands die or leave. Some women never marry.

When the subject of the poor comes up, most people think about people who stand on the street corners with cardboard signs, or the illegal aliens who gave birth to children after sneaking into the country, thereby anchoring themselves here and using the resources that Americans pay for. The U.S. does have many programs to help the “poorest of the poor,” but the upper two thirds of those living poor are almost entirely ignored, especially in a state like New Mexico.

In my case, I had been ill with several inherited conditions from the time I was a child, as well as being saddled with PTSD, due to certain traumatic events. Despite these multiple handicaps, I worked for more than 33 years and paid taxes throughout that time, but became completely unable to work by the time I was 50, and had to retire on Social Security Disability. After all those years of paying into the system, I was shocked when I learned that my pitiful income was “too much” to qualify me for any programs. No dental care. No eyeglasses (despite being nearly blind.) Nothing.

Whereas most people think the poor have “made bad life decisions” and that most are drug addicts or alcoholics, nothing could be further from the truth. I have recently read that only 1% of the poor have these issues. I have lived an entirely chaste life for many years and do not smoke, drink, or take drugs. I am not perfect, of course. I AM human. I just do not have the habits typically associated with the poor. Of course, one would expect this of a woman dedicated to the religious life, but my tame lifestyle is not unusual among the grannies who are struggling to put healthy food on their table, pay for over-the-counter and prescription medications, and purchase eyeglasses for failing vision.

Next time you wonder about where your contributions might help the most, please consider filling in the gaps in the unmet needs of the grannies in your parish or in your neighborhood. Find a lonely, myopic granny and adopt her. Ask her what she needs and, to the best of your ability, provide what you can. Make her a part of your family and treat her the same way you would treat your Mom.

A needy granny may be sitting next to you during mass. She could live next door to you. She won’t be dressed in rags and standing on a street corner.  She hasn’t always been poor, so she may look like any other nice, middle-class church lady, but her cupboards at home are nearly empty, and she hasn’t seen a dentist in 10 or 15 years. She may desperately need some new eyeglasses. Finding your “granny” may involve getting to know all the old people at your parish, which should be an eye-opening experience in many ways.

Try to resist turning this into an impersonal, generic Catholic ministry that is organized to help groups of people. The very best part of being adopted by my Catholic friends has been the love I have received from them, the friendship, and the caring. Food, vitamins and other needed items are only the SIGN of the most important gift.

One of the primary Biblical quotes that lead to my conversion was, “They shall know you by how you love one another.” I have received Christian love in this process and have been able to give it, in turn. I highly recommend it.

God bless you all.

Silver “Rose” Parnell